Soul & Solace: Hardship’s Crucible

Hardship, aka tough times, aka One Big Mess. Whatever we call it, a time of trial can work like a crucible. We get tossed in the beaker with a variety of volatile ingredients, the fire’s laid on, and things start churning and bubbling. In time, the dross burns away, and we’re left with the precipitated amalgam: potentially stronger, cleaner, and clarified. In other words, hardship, blast it!, can show us who we are and what we value.

A recent leadership change in our daughter’s liberal arts college elicited a major policy change. Graduate students found themselves tossed into hardship’s crucible. It’s been a fiery trial, especially for young people living in near poverty and working/studying 24/7. Below is Arielle’s post, written in the crucible. I share it because 1) the piece reflects A Spacious Place’s values applied in a real-world situation; 2) the piece demonstrates the power of creative and reflective thought, thus demonstrating the importance of arts and soul education; and 3) I’m mighty proud of her.

Just one last word before Arielle’s piece. We have a single task in a crucible time: to remain in the beaker till the flame has done its work. A few screams are not only to be expected—they may well be efficacious.

From Arielle McKee’s Facebook Post
I have been struggling for some time with how to put words around recent events at my university, and have finally come to this (and it is the best I can do at this moment):

The liberal arts matter exactly as much as the other colleges at ours and other universities, just as each component discipline is just as necessary and valuable as the next. Education is not, it cannot be about dollar value, deliverables, or ambiguous innovations. Nor is education a business; indeed, to measure the “success” of an education in such terms is to not only fundamentally misunderstand education’s power and purpose, but to effectively hinder, and at times even to thwart, an educator or educational institution’s ability to challenge and nurture well-rounded, creative, and critical thinkers. Thinkers who can change the world for the better.

In CLA we are trained to ask questions and to critically examine the world; it is our duty as scholars and as humans to query received narratives and to use our training to imagine new, creative solutions. Not a single one of us should be a tradeoff; we are people with lives and dreams and voices, and we are stronger together. We are stronger because, if we value each other and each other’s work–refusing to accept that any one person is worth less than any other–then we will finally have between us a staggering force for radical change. As liberal arts scholars, our particular call is to imagine and create alternatives, rather than to accept the limits we are told to hold to–particularly when those limits harm or devalue another human life.

I find myself lucky enough to work alongside friends and colleagues who believe in and will bravely fight for our education and for the education of our students and fellows. I am continually in awe of the bright and compassionate hearts and minds I see around me. To me you truly embody what the Liberal Arts are and should be, and I am proud to know you.

What We’re Making: Swedish Heart Valentine Card Holders

Another Valentine’s Day has come and gone; did you make anything fun to celebrate? Maybe baked something tasty for a loved one, or gave a friend a Valentine’s card?

We made Swedish Heart Valentine Holders with our groups last week.  Really simple, but a pretty and useful craft as well!

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(And sure, these are normally a Christmas-time decoration in their native Sweden, but with their fun heart shape our participants loved doing them for Valentine’s.)

The basic steps are, once you’ve cut out two shapes like this:

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You weave the strips together to make something like this:
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Using liquid glue, glue two Swedish Hearts together along the bottom two straight edges.  Make sure to leave the curved part unglued so you can put your valentines inside!
Add you name to the front and you’re done!
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Some tips:
  • We cut the initial shapes for the Swedish hearts ahead of time, since not all of our participants have the kind of fine-motor skills this step calls for.
  • We did, however, have them cut out the name plate hearts for the front of their card holders.  It’s always fun to see that half-heart shape open up to a symmetrical heart!
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  • Finally, it really is easiest to use two different types of glue for this project: glue stick for gluing the ends of the strips to the final edge of the heart (do this as you go along or when all of the weaving is done), and liquid glue to get the two large hearts connected to make the card-holding pocket.  I know two glues sounds like overkill, but they really do their jobs well here!
Everyone had so much fun making all of the pieces for  their hearts and decorating them!
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Happy Valentine’s Day, everyone!

What We’re Making: Mardi Gras Masks and Beads

Mardi Gras is upon us once again!  We made festive masks and beaded necklaces with our groups last week.

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Some tips if you’d like to do this activity with your own group:

  • We chose to do four different mask shapes; our participants love the variety!
  • You’re going to want good scissors to cut out the outsides of the masks, and a sharp craft knife to cut out the eye holes. Trust me on that part.
  • To help the cords stay put in the masks, we put a piece of tape over that area of the back of the mask before punching the holes.  The tape doesn’t hold down the cord, but it does help reinforce the posterboard of the mask itself.
  • We actually tied the cord to one end of the mask ahead of time, even before the participants had decorated them, as it eliminated a step (we didn’t have to hand out cords that the participants would need to keep track of, nor tie them twice for every participant).  Streamlining the process can be very helpful!
  • For the beaded necklaces, we pre-cut the cord to a certain length, and made a mark on the cord about two inches from the end (using white cord, we just added a dot with a marker).  We then explained to the participants to please keep their beads between the two dots, so there is enough room to tie a knot.  The visual reference seems to help.
  • Of course green, yellow, and purple are traditional Mardi Gras colors, and we mentioned that to our participants, but we provided markers, feathers, and sequins of all colors.  Everyone could use whatever they gravitated toward that day.

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Are you making anything fun to celebrate Mardi Gras?  Masks or beads?  King cake or pancakes?  🙂  Tell us what you’re making in the comments below!

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Happy creating!

What We’re Making

Hello, you big, wide, creating world!  My name is Caitlin, and I’m on the board here at A Spacious Place.  I’m excited to start sharing some of our activities with you!

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If you’ve made it all the way here to the blog, I’m guessing you know a bit about us.  But in case you’ve just stumbled upon us, we’re a creativity and spirituality organization located in Austin, Texas.  We love giving those in our community the opportunity to really tune-in to themselves as they create fun art!

All over Austin we lead projects with as many as 40 participants, so all you art teachers, camp leaders, babysitters, and anyone else needing some creative activities can follow along for ideas.  Kaye, our director, has been in the creating game for over 35 years now, and she’s come up with some great stuff.

My hope for sharing here on the blog is that you’ll join us and create something yourself!  Even if it’s just you at your dining room table on a Saturday afternoon, we’re all about encouraging the process of creating here.

Got ideas for projects you’ve done with a group?  We’d love to hear them!  Feel free to comment below, or reach out to us on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram.

Next up I’ll be sharing a Mardi Gras activity!  Get excited.  🙂

Happy creating!

 

P.S. Today is our 10th birthday here at A Spacious Place!  Rock on, Spacious Dude!

July 2013 Soul and Solace

Funk & Foul Ups

Our “Crazy Dreams” Creativity Camp has me thinking… We’ll explore the lives of folks who changed the world in myriad ways: politics, visual arts, music, literature, computing. Some of these crazy dreamers had harsh life experiences. All made their fair share of foul ups.

So before I encourage our campers to accept themselves, warts and all, I’ll try to do the same. I’ll remind myself that I was not put here to fly serenely above all life’s messiness. I’m here to dig in, which means I’ll get messy, and sometimes I’ll make a mess.

Cornell West calls the messiness of life “funk.” I’m covered in funk most of the time. And messy as it is, painful as it is, I’ll take it to soaring unscathed above the funk. Funk is primordial ooze of creativity; funk is life. So I’ll challenge our campers to dream crazy big, and then then to dig in and live their dreams. ‘Cause that’s what crazy dreamers do.

What are your thoughts on funk and foul ups? Share your insights.

May 2013 Soul and Solace

Gardens & Choices

Much like the story our Young Writers will explore this month, my husband and I started this weekend to resurrect our long-neglected garden. We tilled, we hauled and set limestone blocks, we laid out landscape fabric, we spread mulch. We also engaged in tug-of-war with some mighty determined roots. But it’s not a garden yet; it’s a garden plot. Now we choose: Tomatoes? Okra? Peppers? Garlic?

Gardens, it seems, are all about choice. We chose veggies over the plants that had homesteaded in the space; we’ll choose tomatoes instead of celery. We’ll say “no” to this, so we can say “yes” to that. And through our choices, blended with the magic elixir of sun, showers, soil, and sweat, we’ll grow a garden.

Saying no feels like bad manners, especially if you’ve been raised to be a “nice girl.” But saying no to what is not me clears a space for me to say yes to what is. So this month, I’ll also be tending my soul garden: uprooting what does not provide good nourishment, so I can plant what will thrive in my soul’s soil. Tomatoes, anyone?

How do you choose between no and yes? How do you tend your soul garden? Share your thoughts.

April 2013 Soul and Solace

ReWriting Our Lives

At present, I’m editing a book published in 2006 for republishing. It’s painful: did I really write THAT? It’s instructive: I’m in such a different place now.

Once we reach adulthood, it’s generally understood that we’ve arrived. Time to sit down and stay put. But reading my writings from years past, I see movement. Once, a seminary professor gave our class an exercise. “Divide your life into decades. Give each decade a chapter title. Then, with each passing decade, revisit your life story and retitle as needed.” As our life lengthens, as we move along, even past events take on a different perspective. They gain new meaning.

Our present constantly rewrites our past and moves us into the future. If we’re awake, if we’re attuned to ourselves and to what is occurring around us, we head somewhere. There’s no need to expect to be who we were ten years ago—or even ten minutes ago: no need to picture our adult selves as spiritual couch potatoes.

How have you changed? How might you write and rewrite your life as you move into the future? Share your thoughts.

March 2013 Soul and Solace

Numbness Cure

We’ve seen the word, heard the word, said the word, felt the word so much that our natural defense mechanisms seek to sap us of feeling. After all, we can only feel horrified for so long before we go numb. Unless we act. And that’s our invitation to you this month.

Whether it’s someone elbowing in front of us in the check-out lane, giving us the one-finger salute, or opening fire on a crowd, violence tears at the fabric of creation. Some acts make small rips, others open gaping gashes. Each one destroys. Each one matters.

What can we do to make a difference—for ourselves or for others? We can take violence seriously, ponder its consequences—potential or real—and then roll up our sleeves and get busy creating. With creativity as our needle and love as our thread, we can stitch beauty into the tears made by violence. We won’t erase them—Jesus still bears His scars—but we will transform them. The smallest act of love and creativity bears more power than any act of violence.

So whether it’s penning a loving letter or email to a friend, planting flowers for others to enjoy, singing in the shower, or baking some cookies, the creative act bears meaning and merit, centering us and restoring our hope. Share your thoughts about violence, love, and creativity .

February 2013 Soul and Solace

True North

February is a study in contrasts. In Austin, February’s the month most likely to bring sleet, snow, and sweat—often within the same week. We celebrate Valentine’s Day: balloons, hearts, and bouquets, and Christians observe Lent: silence, reflection, and confession.

By February we’ve had time to get real about those new year’s resolutions we made. What are we really determined to do? Where are we headed? Charles Kimball’s book, When Religion Becomes Evil, encourages readers to think of their life’s journey in terms of a compass, rather than a map. In other words, instead of seeking what specific turns and highways we’re supposed to take, we determine our highest value and, when faced with a decision, make the choice that points us true north.

I can’t control what comes into my life; I can determine my response to it. I can seek to face Godward. When I take a wrong turn, all I have to do is realize it, turn around, and continue north.

So in this month of contrasts, I’m seeking to face Godward, journey true north, and just see where it takes me. What is your true north? What metaphor(s) inform your life choices? We’d love to hear your thoughts.

January 2013 Soul and Solace

God Magic

Into a season of expectancy and joy intruded an act of devastating violence. What can we, small and distant as we are, do for the parents, the brothers, the sisters, the friends and fellow teachers, the bewildered student survivors of Sandy Hook Elementary?

A Spacious Place takes violence and its consequences seriously. What happened in Connecticut will forever change lives in that community, but also, the very fabric of the universe. We also believe creativity and love bear a deeper, more powerful magic than violence. So we invite you to join us in taking these people into our hearts and placing them in God’s hands (to paraphrase of Madeleine L’Engle’s definition of prayer).

Our Ramah Faith site was created in response to an event which has come to be called the Slaughter of the Innocents (Matthew 2:1-18). Leading up to the anniversary of the nativity celebration, we witnessed the aftermath of a second Slaughter of Innocents.

Our invitation? Begin the new year by putting your powerful magic to work. Read the news stories of those who died—including those who died seeking to shield children—and those who mourn them, then create a prayer—be it a word, a sentence, a poem, a drawing, a photo, or whatever else your faith and your faith tradition prompts you to offer. Email us your prayer (contact@aspaciousplace.com) to post on the Ramah Faith site (www.ramahfaith.com) alongside other responders, thus forming a potent circle of God magic.

They have asked for prayer; let us answer. While our prayers will not minimize or erase what has happened, they will flood a devastated community with love. And that is a needful thing, for, in the end, love alone has muscle enough to bear us up through tragedy.